Do you deal with your partner by complaining, avoiding, or controlling? Are you willing to give that up and do something that is harder but more effective?
Relationship coaching is not for the average person.
Consider your answer to these questions before deciding that relationship coaching is for you:
- Are you willing to give up complaining and all attempts to change your partner?
- Are you willing to see the truth about the harmful things that are going on in your relationship and do something about them--even if you didn't start them?
- Are you willing to learn the skills you need to have in order to improve your relationship, even if your partner does nothing?
- Are you willing to use those skills to improve your relationship for your partner's benefit as well as your own?
- Are you willing to let go of short term "quick fixes" and work toward long term satisfaction?
- Are you willing to get necessary professional guidance even though you will have to pay for it?
Frankly, most people do not maek the choices necessary to have a good relationship. They rely on habit, avoidance, and quick fix methods. They do what is easiest to do today although it will prolong or worsen a bad situation. Such people seek things that make them feel better without doing anything to improve their situation. Relationship coaching is not for them. Relationship coaching is for mind-awakening, not for mind-numbing.
Relationship Coaching Will Change You
- You will focus more on getting what you want rather than complaining about what you don’t want. This will cause your mood and energy level to improve.
- You will take actions that are simple and productive rather than self-defeating. This will boost your self-confidence and make you feel more in control of your life.
- You will stop letting other people be your reason to do nothing. This will stop you from feeling stuck and like a victim.
- You will become better at goal setting and goal achievement. So, you will become more excited about your future.
- You will experience more successes. This will encourage you and at first shock your partner.
- You will become more positive about yourself, your relationship, and your future. You will no longer be angry with your partner.
Will We Only Focus on Relationships?
As your relationship coach, I will focus on any goals that you have. Often to improve our relationships, we must first make changes in our personal lives. As your relationship coach I am highly qualified to help you with both. All coaches are first trained in general life coaching and then may specialize. When you hire a relationship coach, you are getting both a life coach and a specialist in one.
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