Relationship coaching is not for the average person.
Consider your answer to these questions before deciding that relationship coaching is for you:
- Are you willing to give up your current ineffective methods of trying to improve your relationship?
- Are you willing to look at whether your actions or inaction are preventing your relationship from moving ahead?
- Are you willing to give up direct attempts to change your partner like complaining and blaming?
- Are you willing to be the first to change the way you and your partner interact, even if you didn't cause the problems?
- Are you willing to earn your partner's respect?
- Are you willing to learn the skills you need to have in order to improve your relationship, even if your partner does nothing?
- Are you willing to use those skills to improve your relationship for your partner's benefit as well as your own?
- Are you willing to let go of short term "quick fixes" and work toward long term intimacy?
- Are you willing to get necessary professional help even though you will have to pay for it?
Frankly, most people do not make the choices necessary to have a good relationship. They rely on habit, avoidance, and quick fix methods. They do what is easiest to do today although it will prolong or worsen a bad situation. Such people seek things that make them feel better without doing anything to improve their situation. Relationship coaching clients tend to the business of creating a great relationship so that they can share the physical and emotional rewards with their partner.
Relationship Coaching Will Change You
- You will focus more on getting what you want rather than on decreasing what you don’t want. This will cause your mood and energy level to improve.
- You will take actions that are simple and productive--focusing on one step at a time. This will boost your self-confidence and make you feel more in control of your life.
- You will become better at goal setting and goal achievement. So, you will become more excited about your future.
- You will experience more success. This will encourage you and at first shock your partner. It will build your partner's respect.
- You will become more positive about yourself, your relationship, and your future.
Will We Only Focus on Relationships?
As your relationship coach, I will focus on any goals that you have. Often to improve our relationships, we must first make changes in our personal lives. As your relationship coach I am highly qualified to help you with both. All coaches are first trained in general life coaching and then may specialize. When you hire a relationship coach, you are getting both a life coach and a relationship coach in one.
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