The Real Way to Find and Keep The Best Partner You Could Possibly Have in This Lifetime

It's Not Magic. It's Not Secrets. And It's Not Easy. But, It Is Conceivable, Believable, and Achievable.

You want to find your soul mate quickly and easily, right?  Well, then don’t come here.  I don’t have that kind of magic for you.  I am also not convinced that the perfect match for you would be the person you would want for a long term partner.  The reason for this is simple.  Unless you already are a well balanced person, the best match for you is going to be another unbalanced person.  Aggressive people match with passive people.  Anxious people match well with controlling people, etc.  If you just want to find someone who is a good match for you, that is not so hard to do, but don’t confuse that with finding someone who would be a great long term partner for you.

What Would a "Perfect" Man or Woman Want With You?

If you want to find a Prince Charming, you need to ask yourself if you are the kind of person that Prince Charming would be interested in.  If not, then how do you intend to keep him if you find him?  And how will you attract him?  The same goes for finding a love goddess.  If you want to find a woman who is “right” for you, then you will need to be “right” for her.  You may be able to fake it for awhile, as many people do, but that will only get you a few good dates.  It will not buy you a lifelong relationship.

Being Rich or Beautiful Is Not Required. Those Things Are Just Excuses Not to Try.

Let me share with you the not quick, and not easy way to find and keep a great partner.  The more of these things you do, the more success you will have finding a great partner and having a great relationship.  Each step is a matter of skills and action.

1. Work on yourself first.  You need to have such a good life that you don’t need a partner at all.  Neediness gets in the way of a great relationship.  The more needy you are, the more of the great partners that will filter out.  They just won’t want to have anything to do with you.  The healthiest people want someone to share their already great life with, not someone they need to take care of.
2. Work with a relationship coach.  You are not an expert on relationships and you cannot acquire the expertise you need by trial and error.  Having many bad relationships won’t teach you how to have a good one.  Your coach will also help you to get your life together so that you become very attractive to the best partners.
3. Make new friends or spend more time with the friends you have.  One good way to evaluate a potential partner is by looking at his or her relationships with friends.  If they don’t have good friendships, how can they have a good one with you?  The same goes for you.
4. Have a purpose, a specific passion, in your life other than finding a partner.  You need something in your life that makes you want to get out of bed in the morning and that excites you about life.  This will make you very attractive to a potential partner and will make you less emotionally dependent on your partner. 
5. Enjoy your life.  The more you enjoy your life, the more attractive you will be, the less needy you will be, the more healthy you will be, and the better partner you will choose.  Someone who does not enjoy his or her life will choose a bad partner in order to get a little more enjoyment out of their life.  That is like a hungry person who lives on a diet of potato chips.  Tastes great in the short term; destroys you in the long term.

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